Dear Abby: My teenage granddaughter is being encouraged to ‘chug’ beer with her stepdad

Nypost · May 13, 2026 · 541 words · By Dear Abby

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DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have recently found out that our 14-year-old granddaughter, a freshman in high school, is being encouraged to drink, or more accurately, “chug,” beer out of cans with her stepdad at parties and social gatherings he has been having…

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Our son, the girl’s biological father, is very concerned about this illegal activity, as are we, but he is fearful if he confronts the mother and stepdad and tells them what they’re doing must stop immediately, his ex will withhold his daughter from him even…

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There is no court order for custody and/or visitation between the parents, as they always worked that out verbally.

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Claim 1: “Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips”

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Wikipedia explicitly confirms that the column is carried on today by Jeanne Phillips, who owns the legal rights to the pen name Abigail Van Buren.

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Dear Abby is an American advice column founded in 1956 by Pauline Phillips under the pen name "Abigail Van Buren" and carried on today by her daughter, Jeanne Phillips, who now owns the legal rights t…
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Pauline Esther Phillips (née Friedman; July 4, 1918 – January 16, 2013), also known as Abigail Van Buren, was an American advice columnist and radio show host who began the well-known Dear Abby newsp…
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Claim 2: “Dear Abby... was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips”

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Wikipedia confirms that Dear Abby was founded in 1956 by Pauline Phillips.

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Jeanne Phillips ( JEE-nee; born 1942), also known as Abigail Van Buren, is an American advice columnist who has written for the advice column Dear Abby since 2000. She was born in Minneapolis to Paul…
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Claim 3: “Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069”

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The contact information is reported multiple times, but all instances come from the same source (Nypost). The Wikipedia result provided is about Connie Britton and is irrelevant to this claim. No other independent sources confirm the specific P.O. Box or URL.

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Connie Britton (born Constance Elaine Womack; March 6, 1967) is an American actress. Her accolades include nominations for five Primetime Emmy Awards and two Golden Globe Awards. She gained prominence…
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