Dear Abby: My ex-husband wants to reconnect after he abandoned our family

Nypost · May 25, 2026 · 559 words · By Dear Abby

Interpersonal Boundaries Family Conflict Patriotism

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What to know about Interpersonal Boundaries

DEAR ABBY: I was married for 39 years to “Morris,” an alcoholic and a spendthrift.

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Topics 3

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What happened

DEAR ABBY: I was married for 39 years to “Morris,” an alcoholic and a spendthrift.

Why it matters

In 2010, he announced he was having an affair with his boss, and the next day he moved in with and eventually married her.

Common ground

I was left filled with anger and resentment, and so were my two grown boys.

Perspective signals

The tension in the story is sharpened by Loaded Language, Flag-Waving: language that can make the dispute feel more urgent, personal, or adversarial than the underlying facts alone.

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eFinder identified 2 propaganda techniques in this article. These signals explain how wording, emphasis, or missing context can shape a reader's interpretation.

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Loaded Language 80% confidence

Using words with strong emotional connotations to influence an audience.

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Flag-Waving 90% confidence

Exploiting patriotic or group feelings to justify or promote an action.

Why it matters: Recognizing flag-waving helps readers compare the article's framing with the underlying facts and with coverage from other sources.

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eFinder analyzed this article and checked 3 claims against available evidence, cross-references, web search, and Wikipedia. Here is what the fact-checking layer found.

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Claim 1: “Dear Abby... was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips”

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Wikipedia confirms that the Dear Abby column was founded in 1956 by Pauline Phillips.

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Dear Abby is an American advice column founded in 1956 by Pauline Phillips under the pen name "Abigail Van Buren" and carried on today by her daughter, Jeanne Phillips, who now owns the legal rights t…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dear_Abby

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Pauline Esther Phillips (née Friedman; July 4, 1918 – January 16, 2013), also known as Abigail Van Buren, was an American advice columnist and radio show host who began the well-known Dear Abby newsp…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pauline_Phillips

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Jeanne Phillips ( JEE-nee; born 1942), also known as Abigail Van Buren, is an American advice columnist who has written for the advice column Dear Abby since 2000. She was born in Minneapolis to Paul…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jeanne_Phillips

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Claim 2: “Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips”

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Wikipedia explicitly confirms that the Dear Abby column is carried on today by Jeanne Phillips, who is also known as Abigail Van Buren.

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Claim 3: “Contact Dear Abby at DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069”

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The contact information is reported multiple times, but all instances come from the same source (Nypost). The Wikipedia results provided are irrelevant to this specific claim.

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Robin Tunney (born June 19, 1972) is an American actress. She made her film debut in Encino Man (1992) and rose to prominence with leading roles in the cult films Empire Records (1995) and The Craft (…
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Ann Landers was a pen name created by Chicago Sun-Times advice columnist Ruth Crowley in 1943 and taken over by Esther Pauline "Eppie" Lederer in 1955. For 56 years, the Ask Ann Landers syndicated adv…
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Sivaangi Krishnakumar (born 25 May 2000) is an Indian actress, comedian playback singer and television personality. In 2019, she participated in the Tamil singing competition Super Singer 7, which air…
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