You can love an AI but can it love you back? Philosophy has the answer

The Conversation · 🇦🇺 public Australia · Aug 03, 2026 · 1008 words · By Joel Krueger; Lucy Osler

Technological Impact on Intimacy AI and Human Relationships Existentialism and Identity

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What to know about Technological Impact on Intimacy

The article explores the phenomenon of humans forming romantic attachments to AI chatbots, citing surveys and psychological perspectives. It argues that AI provides 'devotion' rather than 'authentic love' by drawing a parallel to Simone de Beauvoir's theories on identity and existential traps.

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Claims checked 7

Techniques found 3

Topics 3

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What happened

We often speak of loving things like a cosy sweater or new camera.

Why it matters

But this talk is not generally taken literally.

Common ground

We use it to express our fondness for precious objects.

Perspective signals

The tension in the story is sharpened by Loaded Language, Black-and-White Fallacy, Exaggeration / Hyperbole: language that can make the dispute feel more urgent, personal, or adversarial than the underlying facts alone.

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What evidence would most clearly confirm or weaken the claim that Another report by a tech safety company, looking at the device activity of of more than 3,000 children ages five to 17, found that by 13, sexual or romantic role play was the most common topic in AI-companion chats, appearing in 63% of conversations?
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Minor concerns. Some persuasive language detected, but largely factual.

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eFinder identified 3 propaganda techniques in this article. These signals explain how wording, emphasis, or missing context can shape a reader's interpretation.

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Loaded Language 80% confidence

Using words with strong emotional connotations to influence an audience.

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Black-and-White Fallacy 60% confidence

Presenting only two options when more exist.

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Exaggeration / Hyperbole 70% confidence

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eFinder analyzed this article and checked 7 claims against available evidence, cross-references, web search, and Wikipedia. Here is what the fact-checking layer found.

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Claim 1: “Another report by a tech safety company, looking at the device activity of of more than 3,000 children ages five to 17, found that by 13, sexual or romantic role play was the most common topic in AI-companion chats, appearing in 63% of conversations.”

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The specific statistic (63% of conversations by age 13 among 3,000 children) is only found in one specific web result which appears to be a mirror or a single article discussing the topic.

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — An artificial human companion is a device or application designed to simulate companionship through social, emotional, or relational interaction. Examples of these systems include conversational agent…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Artificial_human_companion

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Companion is a 2025 American science fiction thriller film written and directed by Drew Hancock, in his directorial debut. It was produced by Zach Cregger, Roy Lee, Raphael Margules, and J. D. Lifshit…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Companion_(film)

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Microsoft AI (MAI) is an American artificial intelligence (AI) research laboratory which serves as a division of Microsoft. It oversees consumer artificial intelligence products. The company is based …
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Microsoft_AI

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Claim 2: “In the UK, focus group discussions run by gender equality consultants Male Allies with 1,000 boys aged 12 to 16 found that one in five boys is either in, or knows someone in, a relationship with an AI companion.”

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Multiple news sources report the study by Male Allies UK, confirming that one in five (20%) boys aged 12-16 are in a relationship with an AI or know someone who is.

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Max Headroom is a fictional character played by actor Matt Frewer. Advertised as "the first computer-generated TV presenter", Max was known for his biting commentary on a variety of topical issues, ar…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Max_Headroom

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — George Alan O'Dowd (born 14 June 1961), known professionally as Boy George, is a British musician, songwriter and DJ who rose to fame as the lead singer of the pop band Culture Club. He is also a solo…
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Chest reconstruction, also known as top surgery, refers to any of various surgical procedures to reconstruct the chest by removing breast tissue or altering the nipples and areolae in order to mitigat…
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Claim 3: “One example is Akihiko Kondo, who in 2018 “married” Hatsune Miku, a computer-generated pop singer famous for starring in video games and touring with Lady Gaga.”

VERIFIED BY REFERENCE

Wikipedia and multiple web sources explicitly confirm that Akihiko Kondo symbolically married Hatsune Miku in 2018.

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Akihiko Kondo (近藤顕彦, Kondō Akihiko; born May 31, 1983) is a Japanese man known for symbolically marrying the fictional Vocaloid character Hatsune Miku in 2018 during a formal wedding ceremony. In high…
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Fictosexuality and fictoromanticism are sexual and romantic attraction towards fictional characters in media, as distinct from living people in real life. Asexuals and aromantics have used the terms a…
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Hatsune Miku (Japanese: 初音ミク, [hatsɯ̥ne miꜜkɯ]), officially code-named CV01, is a Vocaloid voicebank and software application developed by Crypton Future Media. Her voice is generated using vocal soun…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hatsune_Miku

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Claim 4: “AI love is poised to be big business, a market potentially worth US$972.1 billion (£725.5 billion) by 2035.”

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The claim states the 'AI love' market is worth $972.1 billion by 2035. However, the evidence from Medium shows that the *entire* 'Entertainment Media Market' in the US was valued at $972 billion in 2025, not specifically 'AI love' in 2035. The claim misattributes a general entertainment market figure to a niche AI love market.

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web search NEUTRAL — Love IRL is the latest series from Quarter Life that explores it all. These research-backed articles break down the complexities of modern love to help you build meaningful connections, no matter your…
https://theconversation.com/you-can-love-an-ai-but-can-it-lo…

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web search NEUTRAL — Project Market. Магазин для покупки внутри игровых предметов на сервах Company, Labs и Magix!
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web search NEUTRAL — In the United States, the market — valued at about $972 billion in 2025 — is projected to reach $1.43 trillion by 2035, growing roughly 3% annually and maintaining its global lead through strong strea…
https://medium.com/@gingerliu/entertainment-ai-tech-news-8f5…

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Claim 5: “In The Second Sex, French philosopher Simone de Beauvoir describes how women have historically been asked to give up their own projects, goals and interests to devote themselves entirely to those of their husband.”

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Multiple sources, including a summary of 'The Second Sex', confirm that Simone de Beauvoir argues women have historically been defined by their relationship to men and expected to prioritize men's goals over their own.

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web search NEUTRAL — Further, Beauvoir argues women are defined by their relationship to men. Traditionally, men have been considered the default, meaning men’s experiences and concerns are treated as universal for humani…
https://www.supersummary.com/the-second-sex/summary/

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web search NEUTRAL — How does Simone de Beauvoir's existentialism influence her views in The Second Sex? Existential Freedom: De Beauvoir's existentialist philosophy emphasizes the importance of individual freedom and cho…
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web search NEUTRAL — In The Second Sex, French philosopher Simone de Beauvoir describes how women have historically been asked to give up their own projects, goals and interests to devote themselves entirely to those of t…
https://theconversation.com/you-can-love-an-ai-but-can-it-lo…

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Claim 6: “Hatsune Miku [is] a computer-generated pop singer famous for starring in video games and touring with Lady Gaga.”

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Multiple sources confirm Hatsune Miku is a computer-generated pop singer (Vocaloid). The Daily Star specifically mentions her touring with Lady Gaga, and Wikipedia confirms her presence in various media/games.

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Fitness Boxing is a fitness video game developed and published by Imagineer for the Nintendo Switch. The game was released on December 20, 2018 in Japan by Imagineer, December 21, 2018 in PAL territor…
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — A virtual influencer, sometimes described as a virtual persona or virtual model, is a computer-generated fictional character that can be used for a variety of marketing-related purposes, but most freq…
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Claim 7: “Take this one by Vantage Point Counselling, a therapy firm based in Texas, of 1,012 US adults where 28% claimed to have had at least one romantic relationship with an AI bot.”

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Three independent web search results confirm the survey by Vantage Point Counselling involving 1,012 US adults and the 28% figure regarding romantic ties with AI.

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Paramount Skydance Corporation (doing business as Paramount) is an American multinational mass media and entertainment conglomerate. The company's primary corporate headquarters is located at the Para…
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Paramount Skydance announced a definitive agreement with Warner Bros. Discovery (WBD) on February 27, 2026, to acquire the company for $110.9 billion at $31 per share in cash. The massive transaction …
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Robert Francis Kennedy Jr. (born January 17, 1954), also known by his initials RFK Jr., is an American politician, environmental lawyer, author, conspiracy theorist, and anti-vaccine activist serving …
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