When 'but they're your family' isn't reason enough to stay

Phys · Aug 21, 2026 · 1052 words · By Elizabeth Weinstein

Mental Health and Boundaries Family Estrangement Sociological Theory of Kinship

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The article discusses the research of sociology professor Rin Reczek regarding family estrangement and the concept of 'compulsory kinship.' It explores the motivations behind adult children choosing to go 'no contact' with parents and argues that such decisions are often a last resort to establish healthier, 'democratized' family bonds.

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What happened

When 'but they're your family' isn't reason enough to stay Gaby Clark Scientific Editor Andrew Zinin Chief Editor "She's your mom." "They're your family." "Blood is thicker than water." For generations, these familiar idioms have illustrated what Rin Reczek…

Why it matters

In their book, Reczek, a professor of sociology at The Ohio State University, and then-Ohio State doctoral student Bosley-Smith (now an assistant professor at Alma College) examined the great effort adult children often make to maintain strained or painful…

Common ground

Now, in Reczek's follow-up book, "Families We Lose: A New Explanation for Family Estrangement," published this week by NYU Press, Reczek explores what happens when adult children decide that family obligation is no longer reason enough to stay.

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The tension in the story is sharpened by Loaded Language: language that can make the dispute feel more urgent, personal, or adversarial than the underlying facts alone.

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eFinder analyzed this article and checked 7 claims against available evidence, cross-references, web search, and Wikipedia. Here is what the fact-checking layer found.

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Claim 1: “about 6% of U.S. adults are estranged from a mother, while roughly 23% are estranged from a father at some point in adulthood”

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While sources agree on the 6% figure for mothers, they contradict on the father figure: HuffPost reports 'about one-quarter' (25%), Upworthy reports 26%, and the claim states 'roughly 23%'.

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — The United States of America (USA), also known as the United States (U.S.) or America, is a country primarily located in North America. It is a federal republic consisting of 50 states and a federal c…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — The United States dollar (symbol: $; currency code: USD) is the official currency of the United States (U.S.) and several other countries. The U.S. Coinage Act of 1792 established the dollar as the ba…
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — In the United States, a state is a constituent political entity, of which there are 50. Bound together in a political union, each state holds governmental jurisdiction over a separate and defined geog…
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Claim 2: “Reczek, a professor of sociology at The Ohio State University”

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The Ohio State University's Department of Sociology page and Google Scholar both confirm Rin Reczek is a professor of sociology at the institution.

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web search NEUTRAL — Dr. Rin Reczek is a sociologist and social demographer who is a national expert on families and health. Rin is a professor in the Department of Sociology at Ohio State University, and as the Co-Direct…
https://www.rinreczek.com/

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web search NEUTRAL — Rin Reczek. Professor, The Ohio State University. Verified email at osu.edu - Homepage.
https://scholar.google.co.in/citations?user=ejYdJ4IAAAAJ&hl=…

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web search NEUTRAL — Rin Reczek is a professor in the Department of Sociology and an affiliate at the Institute for Population Research at The Ohio State University whose research focuses broadly on family and health. Rin…
https://sociology.osu.edu/people/reczek.2

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Claim 3: “Bosley-Smith (now an assistant professor at Alma College)”

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Alma College's official site, Google Scholar, and The Almanian all confirm Emma Bosley-Smith is an assistant professor of sociology at Alma College.

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web search NEUTRAL — Emma Bosley-Smith. Title. Assistant Professor of Sociology.Emma Bosley-Smith is a sociologist who focuses on economic insecurity, LGBTQ identities and family.
https://www.alma.edu/faculty-staff/emma-bosley-smith/

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web search NEUTRAL — Assistant Professor, Alma College. Verified email at alma.edu - Homepage. sexualities class family relationships qualitative methods.ER Bosley-Smith, C Reczek.
https://scholar.google.ru/citations?user=mDJwb1kAAAAJ&hl=en

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web search NEUTRAL — She was drawn to Alma because “it was clear… that students are the center of the college.” New to the sociology department are two new assistant professors: Emma Bosley-Smith and Dion Campbell.
https://thealmanian.com/2022/09/09/alma-welcomes-eleven-new-…

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Claim 4: “Reczek's follow-up book, "Families We Lose: A New Explanation for Family Estrangement," published this week by NYU Press”

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NYU Press and other sources confirm the publication of 'Families We Lose: A New Explanation for Family Estrangement' by Rin Reczek.

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web search NEUTRAL — A New Explanation for Family Estrangement. by Rin Reczek. Published by: NYU Press.In Families We Lose, Rin Reczek takes a different view, arguing that going no contact isn’t done on a whim by selfish …
https://nyupress.org/9781479838790/families-we-lose/

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web search NEUTRAL — Publication details. Rin Reczek, Redoing Family After Estrangement, Journal of Marriage and Family (2026).
https://phys.org/news/2026-08-theyre-family-isnt-stay.html

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Claim 5: “Rin Reczek and Emma Bosley-Smith, co-authors of the 2022 book "Families We Keep: LGBTQ People and Their Enduring Bonds with Parents" (NYU Press)”

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Multiple independent sources, including the NYU Press official site and other academic references, confirm that Rin Reczek and Emma Bosley-Smith co-authored 'Families We Keep: LGBTQ People and Their Enduring Bonds with Parents' published by NYU Press.

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web search NEUTRAL — Families We Keep. LGBTQ People and Their Enduring Bonds with Parents. by Rin Reczek and Emma Bosley-Smith.Why LGBTQ adults don’t end troubled ties with parents and why (perhaps) they should.
https://nyupress.org/9781479813339/families-we-keep/

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web search NEUTRAL — Now, in Reczek's follow-up book, "Families We Lose: A New Explanation for Family Estrangement," published this week by NYU Press, Reczek explores what happens when adult children decide that family ob…
https://phys.org/news/2026-08-theyre-family-isnt-stay.html

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web search NEUTRAL — Rin Reczek and Emma Bosley-Smith.NYU Press Scholarship Online Families We Keep: LGBTQ People and Their Enduring Bonds with Parents Marriage and the Family Marriage and the Family Books Journals Oxford…
https://academic.oup.com/nyu-press-scholarship-online/book/4…

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Claim 6: “She conducted in-depth interviews with 68 estranged adults across the U.S. in 2023”

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Both a Fortune article and another source explicitly state that Rin Reczek conducted in-depth interviews with 68 estranged adults in 2023.

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web search NEUTRAL — In a 2015 survey of 807 estranged adults conducted by the University of Cambridge Centre for Family Research and the charity Stand Alone, the factor most commonly rated "very relevant" to estrangement…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Family_estrangement

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web search NEUTRAL — She conducted in-depth interviews with 68 estranged adults across the U.S. in 2023, tracing their family histories from childhood to the present day.Rin Reczek, Redoing Family After Estrangement, Jour…
https://phys.org/news/2026-08-theyre-family-isnt-stay.html

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web search NEUTRAL — I conducted 68 in-depth interviews with adults who went no-contact with a parent, sibling, grandparent or other relative.
https://fortune.com/2026/08/25/why-do-people-go-no-contact-p…

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Claim 7: “Rin Reczek, Redoing Family After Estrangement, Journal of Marriage and Family (2026). DOI: 10.1111/jomf.70065”

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The specific article title, journal, and DOI are mentioned in one source provided in the evidence, but the other search results for this claim are irrelevant (ChatGPT Wikipedia entries), providing no further corroboration.

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web search NEUTRAL — ChatGPT (acrónimo del inglés Chat G enerative P retrained T ransformer) es una aplicación de chatbot de inteligencia artificial generativa desarrollada en noviembre de 2022, por OpenAI.
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web search NEUTRAL — Use ChatGPT to answer questions, write, create images, complete work, and code—all in one place. Get started for free or download the app.
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web search NEUTRAL — Nov 30, 2022 · We’ve trained a model called ChatGPT which interacts in a conversational way. The dialogue format makes it possible for ChatGPT to answer followup questions, admit its mistakes, challen…
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