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Small talk acts like social glue – here’s how to get better at it

Daily Maverick · 🇿🇦 public South Africa · · 783 words · By Jessica Robles
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What to know about Small talk acts like social glue – here’s how to get better at it

“Good weekend?” “Bit hot today, isn’t it!” “Back in the office again…” We rely on small talk like this, and being good at it is even seen as a mark of conversational competence.

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What happened

“Good weekend?” “Bit hot today, isn’t it!” “Back in the office again…” We rely on small talk like this, and being good at it is even seen as a mark of conversational competence.

Why it matters

Once you notice formulaic expressions such as “how are you” aren’t asking the question genuinely, this sort of talk can seem like empty pleasantries or even inauthentic.

Common ground

So should we be seeking to abandon small talk, or is it fundamental to our social lives?

Perspective signals

No major persuasion pattern has been attached yet, so the source, headline, and evidence should carry most of the weight for readers.

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Claim 1: “This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license.”
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Multiple independent news outlets (Phys, Daily Maverick) include the exact same attribution statement confirming the article was republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license.
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — The Conversation is a network of nonprofit media outlets publishing news stories and research reports online, authored by academics with professional journalist editors to produce accessible research-…
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — This is a list of notable works available under a Creative Commons license. There are multiple Creative Commons licenses, each with important differences.
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Claim 2: “Anthropologist Bronisław Malinowski called this kind of talk “phatic communion” in the early 20th century.”
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Multiple authoritative sources, including Wikipedia and academic definitions, confirm that anthropologist Bronisław Malinowski coined the term 'phatic communion' in his 1923 essay 'The Problem of Meaning in Primitive Languages'.
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Bronisław Kasper Malinowski (Polish: [brɔˈɲiswaf maliˈnɔfskʲi]; 7 April 1884 – 16 May 1942) was a Polish anthropologist and ethnologist whose writings on ethnography, social theory, and field research…
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Bronisław Malinowski (Polish pronunciation: [brɔˈɲiswaf maliˈnɔfskʲi]; 4 June 1951 – 27 September 1981) was a Polish track and field athlete, who is best known for winning a gold medal in the 3000 m s…
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — The Sexual Life of Savages in North-Western Melanesia: An Ethnographic Account of Courtship, Marriage, and Family Life Among the Natives of the Trobriand Islands, British New Guinea is a 1929 book by …
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Claim 3: “small talk is a skill so important that it’s built into training as a crucial aspect of rapport building in service and other businesses, and foundational to the bedside manner of doctors.”
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The specific claim that small talk is 'built into training' for service businesses and doctors is only explicitly stated in the source article (republished in The Independent). While other sources discuss the general importance of rapport and bedside manner, they do not specifically confirm the existence of formalized 'small talk training' programs as described.
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web search NEUTRAL — What Makes Bedside Manner and Communication Important? Dalton’s research demonstrates that empathy and effective communication between doctors and patients is more than following a script. But it does…
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web search NEUTRAL — But small talk is a skill so important that it’s built into training as a crucial aspect of rapport building in service and other businesses, and foundational to the bedside manner of doctors.
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web search NEUTRAL — In professional settings, building rapport can help you build your network—since meaningful relationships and personal connections are at the heart of networking.Build a positive reputation in your in…
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/build-rapport-with-clients/
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