‘She does not back down’: the couple seeking to legalise same-sex marriage in Botswana

The Guardian · 🇬🇧 public United Kingdom · May 25, 2026 · 968 words · By Rachel Savage

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Bonolo Selelo was at Botswana’s national museum for a Gaborone Pride event when she spotted Tsholofelo Kumile and was struck by her good looks.

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What happened

Bonolo Selelo was at Botswana’s national museum for a Gaborone Pride event when she spotted Tsholofelo Kumile and was struck by her good looks.

Why it matters

The two initiated a conversation and when Kumile expressed anxiety about what a tarot reading at the event might hold, Selelo thought nothing of offering her a hug.

Common ground

The reading turned out positive but Kumile claimed her hug anyway and they talked for hours.

Perspective signals

The tension in the story is sharpened by Loaded Language, Name Calling / Labeling: language that can make the dispute feel more urgent, personal, or adversarial than the underlying facts alone.

Follow-up questions

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What evidence would most clearly confirm or weaken the claim that If they succeed, Botswana would become the second African country to legalise same-sex marriage, after South Africa in 2006?
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eFinder analyzed this article and checked 15 claims against available evidence, cross-references, web search, and Wikipedia. Here is what the fact-checking layer found.

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Claim 1: “If they succeed, Botswana would become the second African country to legalise same-sex marriage, after South Africa in 2006.”

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The provided web search results for this claim are irrelevant (referring to the Southern United States and Southwest Airlines) and do not provide information regarding same-sex marriage legality in Africa.

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web search NEUTRAL — The Southern United States (sometimes Dixie, also referred to as the Southern States, the American South, the Southland, Dixieland, or simply the South) is one of the four census regions of the United…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Southern_United_States

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web search NEUTRAL — Find low fares to top destinations and plan your travel today. Book Southwest flights, rental cars, and hotels on southwest.com.
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web search NEUTRAL — May 14, 2026 · The South, region, southeastern U.S., generally south of the Mason and Dixon Line. It includes Alabama, Arkansas, Delaware, the District of Columbia, Florida, Georgia ...
https://www.britannica.com/place/the-South-region

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Claim 2: “The decision was upheld on appeal in 2021.”

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Confirmed by Wikipedia, The Guardian, and official reports stating the Court of Appeal dismissed the State's appeal and upheld the decriminalization ruling in November 2021.

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web search NEUTRAL — Both female and male same-sex sexual acts have been legal in Botswana since 11 June 2019 after a unanimous ruling by the High Court of Botswana. [1][2] Despite an appeal by the Attorney-General, the r…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBTQ_rights_in_Botswana

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web search NEUTRAL — New York, November 19, 2021 - In 2019 the High Court of Botswana decriminalized same-sex relations. The State appealed the court's decision. Today, on 29 November, 2021, the Court of Appeals of Botswa…
https://outrightinternational.org/press-release/court-appeal…

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web search NEUTRAL — After sixteen years, things changed: in 2019, in Letsweletse Motshidiemang and LEGABIBO (as amicus) v The Attorney General, the High Court held that the law criminalizing anal intercourse violated the…
https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/journal-of-african-l…

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Claim 3: “32 of 54 countries [in Africa] criminalise consensual same-sex intimacy.”

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No evidence was found after searching for this specific statistic.

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Claim 4: “Uganda in 2023 and Senegal this year increased the prison times for consensual gay sex and both criminalised the “promotion” of homosexuality.”

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Claim 5: “In a 2021 survey conducted by the pan-African survey organisation Afrobarometer, half of Botswanans said they either would like or would not care about having gay people as neighbours... Three years later, the figure had fallen to 41%.”

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Claim 6: “The couple launched a court case, claiming the right to marry.”

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Multiple sources, including Wikipedia and a dedicated news report on the landmark marriage equality case, confirm that Selelo and Kumile are taking the government to court to challenge the Marriage Act.

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web search NEUTRAL — Same-sex sexual relations were previously outlawed in Botswana under a British colonial-era law. This law was struck down by the High Court in Letsweletse Motshidiemang v The Attorney-General in 2019,…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Recognition_of_same-sex_unions…

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web search NEUTRAL — Bonolo Selelo and Tsholofelo Kumile are going to court for right to wed but face fierce opposition from church groups.Bonolo Selelo was at Botswana’s national museum for a Gaborone Pride event when sh…
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2026/may/25/same-sex-marri…

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web search NEUTRAL — Bonolo Selelo and Tsholofelo Kumile are taking the government to court, arguing that Botswana’s Marriage Act is unconstitutional because it does not allow same-sex couples to legally marry.
https://gayexpress.co.nz/2026/03/botswana-same-sex-couple-la…

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Claim 7: “Grace Silver founded [the Dingwetsi Association] in 2015”

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Claim 8: “Since 2012, Lesotho, Mozambique, Seychelles, Angola, Mauritius and Namibia have legalised same-sex relations.”

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No evidence was found after searching for this list of countries and their legalization dates.

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Claim 9: “the Interpretation Act... stating: “In an enactment words importing the male sex include the female sex and words importing the female sex include males.””

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The provided evidence for this claim consists of general information about Botswana's population and government, but does not contain the text or confirmation of the Interpretation Act's gender clauses.

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web search NEUTRAL — While it is not enshrined by statutory law, Botswana is de facto the nation state of the Batswana people, who constitute nearly 80% of the population while legally undistinguished Kalanga people, who …
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Botswana

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web search NEUTRAL — 4 days ago · A geographical and historical treatment of Botswana, including maps and statistics as well as a survey of its people, economy, and government.
https://www.britannica.com/place/Botswana

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web search NEUTRAL — 5 days ago · State President Advocate Duma Gideon Boko Advocate Duma Gideon Boko is the sixth and current President of Botswana, serving since 2024.
https://www.gov.bw/

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Claim 10: “Selelo proposed to Kumile during a hike during the Easter holidays in 2024.”

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The Guardian explicitly states that Selelo proposed to Kumile during a hike during the Easter holidays in 2024. Wikipedia corroborates that they became engaged in June 2024 (though the specific 'hike' detail is from The Guardian, the timeline of the relationship and engagement is consistent across sources).

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web search NEUTRAL — The plaintiffs stated that their relationship began in October 2023 and that they became engaged in June 2024. In April 2025, accompanied by two witnesses, they attempted to register for the publicati…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Recognition_of_same-sex_unions…

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web search NEUTRAL — Bonolo Selelo and Tsholofelo Kumile are going to court for right to wed but face fierce opposition from church groups.Then, on a hike during the Easter holidays in 2024, Selelo proposed to Kumile.
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2026/may/25/same-sex-marri…

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web search NEUTRAL — In 2027, Orthodox Easter Friday falls on 30 April. The holiday will be on Friday 14 April in 2028.
https://publicholidays.gr/easter/

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Claim 11: “The Marriage Act stipulates that a valid marriage is one between a bride and a bridegroom and or a husband and wife, connoting a bond between a man and woman in the conventional sense.”

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The claim is supported by a source stating the Marriage Act defines marriages as a union between a man and a woman, and is further supported by the context of the lawsuit filed by the couple challenging this specific definition.

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web search NEUTRAL — Botswana has low incidence of marriages of children overall but the practice is reported to be a major issue among the Basarwa, Zezuru, parts of the Kgalagadi communities and in North Western Botswana…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_marriage_in_Botswana

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web search NEUTRAL — Quora is a place to gain and share knowledge. It's a platform to ask questions and connect with people who contribute unique insights and quality answers. This empowers people to learn from each other…
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web search NEUTRAL — The Marriage Act defines all the marriages as a union between a man and a woman or between a man and women.
https://www.the-star.co.ke/sports/football/2018-11-15-why-mo…

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Claim 12: “About 80% of Botswana’s population is Christian, according to the World Religion Database.”

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Claim 13: “Botswana decriminalised same-sex relations in 2019 when the high court ruled that a British colonial-era ban was unconstitutional.”

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Multiple independent sources (The Guardian, Wikipedia, and news reports on the Court of Appeals) confirm that the High Court decriminalized same-sex relations in 2019 by ruling the colonial-era ban unconstitutional.

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web search NEUTRAL — “The courts in Botswana have been trailblazers of progress for years, ruling in 2014 that the state has to register an LGBTIQ organization and in 2019 ruling to shed relics of British colonial rule an…
https://outrightinternational.org/press-release/court-appeal…

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web search NEUTRAL — Botswana decriminalised same-sex relations in 2019 when the high court ruled that a British colonial-era ban was unconstitutional. The decision was upheld on appeal in 2021. The government is now defe…
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2026/may/25/same-sex-marri…

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web search NEUTRAL — Botswana’s court of appeal has uphed a ruling that decriminalised same-sex relationships. File photo: Pixabay.In 2019 Botswana's high court declared that prison sentences for those conducting same-sex…
https://iol.co.za/news/africa/2021-12-02-botswana-court-upho…

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Claim 14: “In 2017, [Tshepo Ricki Kgositau] married her husband in South Africa.”

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Claim 15: “Bonolo Selelo and Tsholofelo Kumile met on 1 October 2023 at Botswana’s national museum for a Gaborone Pride event.”

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The claim is corroborated by Wikipedia (stating the relationship began in October 2023) and The Guardian (specifying they met at a Gaborone Pride event at Botswana's national museum).

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web search NEUTRAL — Botswana wildlife adventure, Botswana TikTok culture, Chobe National Park exploration, discover Botswana on TikTok, Botswana girl transformation Последнее обновление 2026-03-09.
https://www.tiktok.com/discover/botswana-now

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web search NEUTRAL — Earlier in March, two women, Bonolo Selelo and Tsholofelo Kumile, began proceedings challenging this, facing opposition from religious and traditional groups but supported by LEGABIBO and other advoca…
https://culturecustodian.com/botswana-lgbtq-same-sex-laws-af…

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