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‘No, I want Mum!’ Does it feel like your child has a favourite parent?

The Conversation · 🇦🇺 public Australia · · 714 words · By Tianyi Ma
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What to know about ‘No, I want Mum!’ Does it feel like your child has a favourite parent?

The article discusses why children may show a preference for one parent over another, attributing it to factors like familiarity, routine, and parenting styles. It provides practical advice for parents on how to handle these preferences and suggests when professional help might be necessary.

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What happened

Many parents have experienced the sting of hearing “no, I want Mum!” Or “only Dad can put me to bed tonight”.

Why it matters

Parents may worry their child loves one parent more, or that they have done something wrong.

Common ground

The good news is these preferences are often temporary and a normal part of child development, rather than a sign one parent is less loved.

Perspective signals

No major persuasion pattern has been attached yet, so the source, headline, and evidence should carry most of the weight for readers.

The article discusses why children may show a preference for one parent over another, attributing it to factors like familiarity, routine, and parenting styles. It provides practical advice for parents on how to handle these preferences and suggests when professional help might be necessary.

open_in_new Read the original article: https://theconversation.com/no-i-want-mum-does-it-feel-like-your-child-has-a-fav…

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eFinder analyzed this article and checked 5 claims against available evidence, cross-references, web search, and Wikipedia. Here is what the fact-checking layer found.

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Claim 1: “Evidence-based parenting programs can help strengthen parent-child relationships, improve parenting confidence, and develop consistent routines.”
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The provided evidence for this claim is completely irrelevant, consisting of Wikipedia and search results regarding the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI), which has no connection to parenting programs.
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web search NEUTRAL — Despite its domestic focus, the FBI also maintains a significant international footprint, operating 60 Legal Attache (LEGAT) offices and 15 sub-offices in U.S. embassies and consulates across the glob…
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Federal_Bureau_of_Investigat…
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web search NEUTRAL — Aug 16, 2024 · How many people work for the FBI? The Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) employs approximately 35,000 people. This workforce includes both special agents and support professionals su…
https://askai.glarity.app/search/How-many-members-does-the-F…
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web search NEUTRAL — The FBI employs approximately 38,000 people, including special agents and support professionals such as intelligence analysts, language specialists, scientists, and information technology...
https://www.fbi.gov/about/faqs/how-many-people-work-for-the-…
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Claim 2: “My team’s research has found online parenting programs and even parenting seminars can improve child and family wellbeing.”
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One source directly quotes the claim about online programs and seminars improving wellbeing, and another source (PDF) specifically examines the efficacy of 'Triple P Online' in improving child development and wellbeing.
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web search NEUTRAL — My team’s research has found online parenting programs and even parenting seminars can improve child and family wellbeing. For most families, though, children’s preferences ebb and flow.
https://news.uq.edu.au/2026-08-no-i-want-mum-does-it-feel-yo…
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web search NEUTRAL — The quality of parenting a child receives has a major impact on development, wellbeing and future life opportunities. This study examined the efficacy of Triple P Online - Disability (TPOL-D) a telehe…
https://www.academia.edu/165736476/Effects_of_an_Online_Play…
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web search NEUTRAL — “The programme is based on the idea that supporting parents’ wellbeing, helping them feel more confident, connected, and grounded in their identity, can strengthen how they relate to their children.” …
https://www.theravive.com/today/post/new-study-looks-at-the-…
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Claim 3: “Research shows that parents feeling confident with everyday routines can help them stay involved and responsive.”
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The Kinedu Blog states that parents with confidence in their decisions usually have better communication with children, and the Journal of Social Work and Welfare Policy indicates a positive relationship between parental involvement and responsiveness.
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web search NEUTRAL — Successful parenting involves a complex relational process that requires slowing down and taking time. Parents who have confidence in their guidance and decisions usually have higher ratings of wellne…
https://www.kinedu.com/blog/the-importance-of-parental-confi…
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web search NEUTRAL — Parental demandingness tended to have a larger canonical function coefficient. In addition, the structure coefficients of parental involvement and responsiveness had the same sign, indicating that the…
https://gexinonline.com/uploads/articles/article-jswwp-112.p…
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web search NEUTRAL — Parental involvement in early education has a direct impact on a child's academic success. Children whose parents are actively engaged in their education tend to achieve higher grades, have better att…
https://playto.com/blog/the-benefits-of-parent-involvement-i…
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Claim 4: “Research on infants’ attachment to their parents has consistently shown little children can form close bonds with multiple caregivers.”
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Multiple sources confirm that attachment can be formed with more than one person. The Bartleby essay explicitly mentions Bowlby's theory that attachment is dependent on 'an individual or more than one person', and the Attachment Project notes infants form bonds with caregivers in the early stages.
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web search NEUTRAL — According to Bowlby, “attachment” is referring to a lasting, mutual bond of affection that is dependent on an individual or more than one person (Webb, 2011). Establishing a secure attachment during i…
https://www.bartleby.com/essay/Attachment-Theory-P3UKK4YTC
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web search NEUTRAL — Bonding is the parental feeling of being connected with the infant, experiencing a sense of unconditional love and closeness. Attachment, on the other hand, describes the infant’s need to be close to …
https://theconversation.com/bonding-with-baby-what-it-should…
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web search NEUTRAL — The infants form attachment with anyone who comes their way. Indiscriminate Stage. 6 weeks – 6 months. The bonds with their caregivers start to grow stronger. Infants begin to distinguish people from …
https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-theory/
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Claim 5: “But they often seek out the caregiver who has provided more comfort and daily care when they are distressed.”
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The provided evidence for this claim consists entirely of dictionary definitions for the word 'distressed' and does not contain any research or factual data regarding which caregiver a child seeks during distress.
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web search NEUTRAL — 2 days ago · Synonyms for DISTRESSED: troubled, perturbed, agitated, disturbed, unsettled, restless, upset, restive; Antonyms of DISTRESSED: calm, easy, quiet, peaceful, restful ...
https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/distressed
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web search NEUTRAL — DISTRESSED definition: 1. upset or worried: 2. having problems because of having too little money: 3. a distressed…. Learn more.
https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/distress…
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web search NEUTRAL — The meaning of DISTRESSED is of, relating to, or experiencing economic decline or difficulty. How to use distressed in a sentence.
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/distressed
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