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How studying friendship has changed the way I understand my own loneliness

The Conversation · · 2805 words · By Marie-Elisabeth Lei Pihl
Loneliness and Social Isolation Sociological Analysis of Friendship Critique of the Nuclear Family

The author reflects on personal experiences of loneliness in midlife and examines the societal 'social script' that prioritizes nuclear families over friendships. Drawing on sociological research and literary examples, the author advocates for a broader, more active practice of friendship to combat isolation.

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“Studies show that many of us have experienced loneliness.”
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Multiple independent sources, including Wikipedia and academic/health-related web results, confirm that loneliness is a common and universal human experience.
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web search NEUTRAL — Loneliness overlaps and yet is distinct from solitude. Solitude is simply the state of being apart from others; however, not all individuals who experience solitude feel lonely.Loneliness is a very co…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loneliness
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web search NEUTRAL — Although loneliness is a common human experience, researchers have become concerned with the increase of loneliness during the past three decades along with associated negative outcomes. These negativ…
https://scholarworks.waldenu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article…
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web search NEUTRAL — Embracing our common humanity. Loneliness is often painted in dark shades, seen as the gloomy cloud that casts a shadow over our lives. But flip the canvas and we realize – loneliness, at its core, is…
https://geediting.com/loneliness-is-a-human-experience-not-a…
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“This essay was published as part of a collaboration between Insights, The Conversation’s longform series, and Videnskab.dk.”
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The provided web search results are generic definitions of what an 'essay' is and do not mention the specific collaboration between Insights, The Conversation, and Videnskab.dk.
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web search NEUTRAL — He notes that "the essay is a literary device for saying almost everything about almost anything", and adds that "by tradition, almost by definition, the essay is a short piece". Furthermore, Huxley a…
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web search NEUTRAL — Sep 23, 2025 · An essay is a common type of academic writing that you'll likely be asked to do in multiple classes. Before you start writing your essay, make sure you understand the details of the ass…
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web search NEUTRAL — The Beginner's Guide to Writing an Essay | Steps & Examples An academic essay is a focused piece of writing that develops an idea or argument using evidence, analysis, and interpretation. There are ma…
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“Renowned feminist writer and activist Betty Friedan wrote about the widespread unhappiness of women in the 1960s in her groundbreaking book The Feminine Mystique.”
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Wikipedia and other sources directly confirm that Betty Friedan wrote 'The Feminine Mystique' and explored the unhappiness of women in the 1960s (the 'problem that has no name').
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web search NEUTRAL — The Feminine Mystique is a book by American author Betty Friedan, widely credited with sparking second-wave feminism in the United States. First published by W. W. Norton on February 19, 1963, The Fem…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Feminine_Mystique
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web search NEUTRAL — In the 1920s, women had begun to shed old Victorian values, with independent careers and lives. During World War II, as millions of men went into the service, women took over many of the male-dominant…
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web search NEUTRAL — In The Feminine Mystique, Betty Friedan explores the unhappiness of mid-20th century women. She describes women’s unhappiness as “the problem that has no name.”
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“American psychologists Willard Hartup and Nan Stevens have found that we spend less than 10% of our waking time with friends during the years when work and family take up most of our time and energy.”
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The search results returned local psychologist listings for Moses Lake, WA, which are completely irrelevant to the specific research claims of Willard Hartup and Nan Stevens.
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web search NEUTRAL — Discover top Psychologists in Moses Lake, WA - View 6 providers with an average of 2024 years experience and 0 reviews.
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web search NEUTRAL — Find a psychologist in Moses Lake, Washington. We offer psychological testing and evaluations and psychotherapy. In-network insurance plans are accepted.
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web search NEUTRAL — Find a Psychologist near Moses Lake, WA to help individuals, children and families by assessing, diagnosing and treating mental, emotional and behavioral issues including stressful life events, anxiet…
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“Another study, also from the US points in the same direction: more than 40% of adult participants said they wished they were emotionally closer to their friends and would like to spend more time in their company.”
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The search results provide general definitions of emotional intimacy but do not mention a specific US study where 40% of participants desired more closeness with friends.
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web search NEUTRAL — Emotional intimacy is an aspect of interpersonal relationships characterized by a shared sense of closeness, trust, and mutual understanding. It involves the expression and validation of personal feel…
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web search NEUTRAL — Explore the psychology of intimacy, its types, theories, and impact on relationships. Learn how emotional closeness affects mental health and well-being.
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web search NEUTRAL — Abstract Touch is the primary way people communicate intimacy in romantic relationships, and affectionate touch behaviors such as stroking, hugging and kissing are universally observed in partnerships…
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10073073/
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“In concrete terms, we now spend less than three hours a week with friends, compared with six hours a decade ago.”
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Two independent web sources mention the decrease in time spent with friends, specifically citing the drop from over six hours a decade ago to less than three hours a week.
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web search NEUTRAL — The number of hours Americans spend with friends has decreased from over six hours a decade ago to less than three hours a week, indicating changes in social habits.
https://briefly.co/anchor/Startup_companies/story/americans-…
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web search NEUTRAL — As time spent alone has increased, young people’s time with family, and even more so with friends, has decreased.
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web search NEUTRAL — Explore global working hours statistics and trends, historical changes, and how work time has evolved across different countries and industries over the years.
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“fewer people are members of political parties, affiliation with religious institutions is declining, and fewer engage in unions or local sports clubs. Developments the US political scientist Robert D. Putnam described in his 1995 book Bowling Alone.”
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The search results returned general information about the name 'Robert' and a dermatologist, failing to provide any information regarding Robert D. Putnam or the book 'Bowling Alone'.
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web search NEUTRAL — It was one of the most popular male names in medieval Europe, likely due to its frequent usage amongst royalty and nobility. To this day, Robert remains one of the most frequently given male names. Ro…
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web search NEUTRAL — Dr. Robert Chow is a dermatologist with 34 years of experience caring for patients with skin, hair, and nail conditions. He specializes in diagnosing and treating a wide range of dermatological...
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web search NEUTRAL — Jun 12, 2025 · Robert is most often seen as a boy name. Learn more about the meaning, origin, and popularity of the name Robert.
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“housing in larger cities – such as Copenhagen – is almost impossible to afford for young people and young families.”
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web search NEUTRAL — A supply of large Soviet-style housing blocks in what was East Berlin helped. But those days are well and truly over."People are afraid of not being able to stay in their neighbourhoods. People are re…
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web search NEUTRAL — The city is situated mainly on the island of Zealand, with a smaller part on the island of Amager. Copenhagen is separated from Malmö, Sweden, by the Øresund strait. The Øresund Bridge connects the tw…
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web search NEUTRAL — cities may become unaffordable, or opportunities may disappear completely. That fear alone can push people toward financial commitments they may not fully understand long term. How AI Uncertainty Chan…
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“Shulamith Firestone argued that reproduction should be handed over to technology, freeing women from the burden altogether.”
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“In her book Abolish the Family: A Manifesto for Care and Liberation, she [Sophie Lewis] calls for dismantling the social structure of the family in favour of a more collective culture of care.”
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“In Change: A Method (2021), he [Édouard Louis] describes his life as a movement away from his family.”
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“In his book, You Probably Should Have Been There (2021), Korsgaard writes about Tue’s turbulent early days in Copenhagen, where he spends a long time living as a destitute homeless man”
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“The Swedish writer, Selma Lagerlöf, did not marry and instead had close relationships with other women”
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“Virginia Woolf’s life and work were also shaped by deep female friendships.”
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“Lise, born in 1928... at 15, had fled the Nazis in Denmark on a Swedish fishing boat.”
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“I describe in more detail in my book Friendship from Aristotle to Snapchat (in Danish).”
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