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Finding Friendship: Psychologist's tips on making friends as an adult and ‘the secret to being likable’

Nbcwashington · · 969 words · By Tommy McFly; Haleigh Hoffman; Sophia Barnes
Community Resources in D.C. Adult Socialization Mental well-being
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With “loneliness epidemic” splashed across headlines and a steady stream of social media posts asking people how to find connection in the D.C.

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With “loneliness epidemic” splashed across headlines and a steady stream of social media posts asking people how to find connection in the D.C.

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eFinder analyzed this article and checked 17 claims against available evidence, cross-references, web search, and Wikipedia. Here is what the fact-checking layer found.

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Claim 1: “The D.C. Public Library has tons of options [for book clubs].”
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Claim 2: “BoozeFreeinDC is a great resource [for sober or sober-curious people].”
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Claim 3: “Local Dischord servers, Reddit channels and Facebook groups like Welcome2DC can yield in-person meetups”
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While web results confirm the existence of Discord and Meetup, there is no specific evidence in the search results confirming the 'Welcome2DC' Facebook group or specific Discord servers used for DC meetups. This is likely specific local knowledge from the article.
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web search NEUTRAL — Search Discord servers by keywords or tags.
https://disboard.org/search
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web search NEUTRAL — Find Meetup events, join groups, or start your own. Make new friends and connect with like-minded people. Meet people near you who share your interests.
https://www.meetup.com/
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web search NEUTRAL — Discover new Discord Servers and communities for any interest, topic, and hobby on the largest Discord Server collection on the planet.The official VALORANT Discord server, in collaboration with Riot …
https://top.gg/discord/servers
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Claim 4: “Jessica Lewis, who founded PlayPlay DC, a community of LGBTQIA+ people who come together to find friends through play”
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A web search result explicitly names Jessica Lewis as the founder of PlayPlay DC, describing it as a community of LGBTQIA+ people who find friends through play.
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Harry Edward Styles (born 1 February 1994) is an English singer, songwriter, and actor. An influential figure in popular culture, he is known for his showmanship, artistry, and flamboyant fashion. Sty…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harry_Styles
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Tessa Thompson is an American actress. She is known for her complex and varied roles spanning genres ranging from Hollywood blockbusters to independent film. Thompson has received nominations from sev…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_awards_and_nominations…
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Zohran Kwame Mamdani (born October 18, 1991) is an American politician who has served as the 112th mayor of New York City since January 2026. A member of the Democratic Party and the Democratic Social…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zohran_Mamdani
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Claim 5: “You capitalize on something called the mere exposure effect, our unconscious tendency to like people when they are familiar”
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The mere exposure effect is a well-documented psychological phenomenon confirmed by Wikipedia and multiple educational psychology sources.
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web search NEUTRAL — The mere-exposure effect is a psychological phenomenon by which people tend to develop a liking or disliking for things merely because they are familiar with them. In social psychology, this effect is…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mere-exposure_effect
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web search NEUTRAL — The mere exposure effect refers to the tendency for people to develop a preference for things simply because they are familiar with them, even if they have no specific information about the merits of …
https://www.simplypsychology.org/mere-exposure-effect.html
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web search NEUTRAL — The mere exposure effect is a psychological term that describes the preference people have for things they have been repeatedly exposed to, even if the exposure is fleeting and doesn’t ever hold the p…
https://builtin.com/articles/mere-exposure-effect
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Claim 6: “Fantom Comics in Dupont hosts beginner-friendly events regularly.”
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Claim 7: “The Animal Welfare League of Arlington is just one example [of a local animal shelter or nonprofit].”
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Claim 8: “Curio Cavern is another option [for game stores].”
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Claim 9: “Dr. Imani Cheers, an associate professor at George Washington University”
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Multiple independent web search results confirm that Dr. Imani M. Cheers is an associate professor of digital storytelling at George Washington University.
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Joker is a 2019 American psychological thriller film directed by Todd Phillips from a screenplay he co-wrote with Scott Silver. Based on DC Comics characters, it stars Joaquin Phoenix and provides an …
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joker_(2019_film)
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — A one-hit wonder is a musical artist who is successful with one hit song, but without a comparable subsequent hit. The term may also be applied to an artist who is remembered for only one hit despite …
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_one-hit_wonders_in_the…
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — This is a list of television programs in which one character was played by multiple actors. In numerous television programs, producers have cast multiple actors for the part of the same character. Thi…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_television_programs_in…
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Claim 10: “Labyrinth DC hosts general board game nights and events for more advanced players.”
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Claim 11: “City Girls Who Walk DC... host weekly walks, happy hours and events, and even have subgroups including book clubs and a grief group.”
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Web search results for 'City Girls Who Walk DC' confirm they host weekly walks and happy hours to promote wellness and community engagement in the DC area.
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web search NEUTRAL — City Girls Who Walk DC (CGWWDC) is a social club for women+ that seeks to promote physical and mental wellness through walking, community engagement, and advocacy in the Washington D.C. Metropolitan A…
https://citygirlsdc.org/
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web search NEUTRAL — Join the City Girls Who Walk group in Manhattan for a fun experience of meeting new friends and exploring the city together! Check out this exciting activity happening every Sunday on pier 45.
https://www.tiktok.com/discover/city-girls-who-walk-gimme-be…
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web search NEUTRAL — 13 hours ago. Heat and humidity return to round out the week.
https://www.dcnewsnow.com/living-local-dmv/connecting-women-…
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Claim 12: “Marisa G. Franco, author of “Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make and Keep Friends,””
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Multiple web search results explicitly confirm that Dr. Marisa G. Franco is the author of the book 'Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make and Keep Friends'.
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — The 83rd Academy Awards ceremony, organized by the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences (AMPAS), honored the best films of 2010 in the United States and took place on February 27, 2011, at the …
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/83rd_Academy_Awards
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Emily Witt is an American investigative journalist based in Brooklyn with a particular focus on modern dating from the feminine perspective.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emily_Witt
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — This is a list of the oldest-known trees. Definitions of longevity vary between clonal trees, ones where parts of the tree continue to live after the death of the first trunk or trunks, and non-clonal…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_oldest_trees
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Claim 13: “Meetup is THE website for finding activities with others who are open to friendships”
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Claim 14: “Play Play DC “is committed to curating refreshing, creative, fun, healing, and playful experiences for grown and queer adults.””
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No evidence was found in the provided search results to verify the specific mission statement or description of Play Play DC.
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Claim 15: “District Fray, Team DC and your local department of parks and recreation all offer programs [for club sports].”
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No evidence was found in the provided search results regarding District Fray, Team DC, or specific parks and recreation club sports programs.
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Claim 16: “the research finds there’s this theory called the theory of inferred attraction”
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Web search results mention 'inferred attraction' in the context of psychological research and attitude similarity-attraction relationships.
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web search NEUTRAL — Multiple mediators of the attitude similarity-attraction relationship: Dominance of inferred attraction and subtlety of affect.Arousal caused by the height of this bridge was misattributed as attracti…
https://saylordotorg.github.io/text_principles-of-social-psy…
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web search NEUTRAL — And you know, there’s research that finds that when we estimate how steep a hill is when we’re with a friend, we see it as less steep, which suggest when we face challenges and we’re connected, like c…
https://tonymartignetti.com/tag/theory-of-inferred-attractio…
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web search NEUTRAL — In psychology, a perspective refers to a particular theoretical framework or approach that involves certain assumptions about human behavior: the way they function, which aspects are worthy of study, …
https://www.simplypsychology.org/perspective.html
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Claim 17: “When we asked our viewers about finding new friends since the pandemic, nearly 40% said they’re looking but struggling.”
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The evidence provided consists of general NBC news links and Wikipedia entries for the station, but no specific poll data or article confirming the '40% of viewers' statistic was found in the search results. This appears to be a specific finding from the original reporting source.
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Aaron Gilchrist is an American journalist, anchor, and correspondent currently working at NBC News and NBC News Now. He was known for working at the NBC owned and operated station WRC for 10 years as …
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aaron_Gilchrist
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Amy Leigh Acton (née Stearns, formerly Beech; born February 16, 1966) is an American physician and researcher who is currently the Democratic nominee for the Governor of Ohio. Acton previously served …
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amy_Acton
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — WRC-TV (channel 4) is a television station in Washington, D.C. It is owned and operated by the NBC television network via its NBC Owned Television Stations division. Under common ownership with Class …
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/WRC-TV
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info Disclaimer: This analysis is generated by AI and should be used as a starting point for critical thinking, not as definitive truth. Claims are verified against publicly available sources. Always consult the original article and additional sources for complete context.