Exclusive | Teen boys are choosing AI girlfriends over real-life relationships — with disastrous consequences: expert

Nypost · Jun 03, 2026 · 692 words · By Reda Wigle

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Sex & Relationships exclusive Teen boys are choosing AI girlfriends over real-life relationships — with disastrous consequences: expert See more of our coverage in your search results.

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Sex & Relationships exclusive Teen boys are choosing AI girlfriends over real-life relationships — with disastrous consequences: expert See more of our coverage in your search results.

Why it matters

Add The New York Post on GoogleIn 2024, a tech bro predicted that “AI girlfriends” would create a $1 billion business — and it seems that youth are busy building on that dark prophecy.

Common ground

New research suggests Generation Alpha boys would rather have a robo-girlfriend than risk rejection and the formative challenges of an IRL relationship.

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The tension in the story is sharpened by Loaded Language, Appeal to Fear, Oversimplification: language that can make the dispute feel more urgent, personal, or adversarial than the underlying facts alone.

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What evidence would most clearly confirm or weaken the claim that The study, conducted by Male Allies UK, surveyed 1,000 boys aged 12 to 16 and found that a hefty 85% of them have spoken to a chatbot?
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eFinder identified 3 propaganda techniques in this article. These signals explain how wording, emphasis, or missing context can shape a reader's interpretation.

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Loaded Language 95% confidence

Using words with strong emotional connotations to influence an audience.

Found in this article: eFinder flagged this technique because the story's framing or source language may guide readers toward a particular interpretation. Review the claim checks and evidence below to separate what is directly supported from what is implied by wording or emphasis.

Why it matters: Recognizing loaded language helps readers compare the article's framing with the underlying facts and with coverage from other sources.

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Appeal to Fear 80% confidence

Building support by instilling anxiety or panic in the audience.

Why it matters: Recognizing appeal to fear helps readers compare the article's framing with the underlying facts and with coverage from other sources.

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Oversimplification 70% confidence

Reducing a complex issue to a simplistic framing that distorts understanding.

Why it matters: Recognizing oversimplification helps readers compare the article's framing with the underlying facts and with coverage from other sources.

fact_checkClaims Checked

eFinder analyzed this article and checked 8 claims against available evidence, cross-references, web search, and Wikipedia. Here is what the fact-checking layer found.

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Claim 1: “The study, conducted by Male Allies UK, surveyed 1,000 boys aged 12 to 16 and found that a hefty 85% of them have spoken to a chatbot”

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Multiple independent sources (Instagram, a report from Male Allies UK, and another web source) confirm a survey of 1,000 boys aged 12-16 by Male Allies UK found that 85% have interacted with a chatbot.

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Lee Chambers (born 22 May 1985) is a British businessman and radio host. Chambers has been interviewed by Vogue, The Guardian, and Newsweek, and is known for analyzing inclusion and allyship in the w…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lee_Chambers_(psychologist)

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Men in feminism involves the participation, contribution, and theoretical engagement of men in the feminist movement from its outset to modern day. Historically, men have both supported and critiqued …
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_in_feminism

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Pro-feminism refers to support of the cause of feminism without implying that the supporter is a member of the feminist movement. The term is most often used in reference to men ("male feminists") who…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pro-feminism

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Claim 2: “A May 2025 study found that a startling 52% of adolescents nationwide use chatbots at least once a month for social purposes”

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The provided evidence for this claim only contains general information about the month of May and does not mention any study regarding adolescent chatbot use for social purposes in 2025.

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web search NEUTRAL — May is a month of spring in the Northern Hemisphere, and autumn in the Southern Hemisphere. Therefore, May in the Southern Hemisphere is the seasonal equivalent of November in the Northern Hemisphere …
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/May

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web search NEUTRAL — May is the fifth month of the year in the Julian and Gregorian calendars, coming between April and June. It has 31 days. The month of May might have been named for the Roman goddess Maia, or more like…
https://simple.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/May

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web search NEUTRAL — Apr 23, 2026 · Explore the month of May with holidays, the Flower Moon, gardening advice, seasonal recipes, weather forecasts, birth symbols, and fun May traditions.
https://www.almanac.com/content/month-may-holidays-fun-facts…

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Claim 3: “over 45% of Gen Z men have reportedly never asked a woman out in real life”

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Medium, a separate web source, and a TikTok summary all report the statistic that 45% of Gen Z men (specifically aged 18-25 or 16-25) have never approached a woman in person to ask her out.

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web search NEUTRAL — In the context of this statistic, all that’s being told to us is that 45% of Gen Z men aged 18–25 have never approached a woman in person (for a date). That doesn’t mean that they’re all looking to da…
https://medium.com/write-a-catalyst/a-reaction-to-45-of-men-…

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web search NEUTRAL — 45% of Gen Z men have never approached a woman in person to ask her out.They study other industries. They pay attention to incentives. Over time they start to see similarities between things that look…
https://www.linkedin.com/posts/brett-stokar-a275b248_45-of-g…

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web search NEUTRAL — 45% of men aged 16-25 have NEVER approached a woman in public. Is it fear, lack of skills, or a contactless world?Half of young men have never asked a woman out in person. Meanwhile, most women still …
https://www.tiktok.com/discover/45-percent-of-men-not-approa…

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Claim 4: “over a quarter prefer the attention and connection of a bot partner to a real, human-to-human relationship”

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Fortune reports that 'over a quarter' prefer the attention of a bot over the real thing, and other sources mention a preference for AI companions among teenagers in the context of the Male Allies UK research.

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — LessWrong (also written Less Wrong) is a community blog and forum focused on discussion of cognitive biases, philosophy, psychology, economics, rationality, and artificial intelligence, among other to…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LessWrong

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Max Headroom is a fictional character played by actor Matt Frewer. Advertised as "the first computer-generated TV presenter", Max was known for his biting commentary on a variety of topical issues, ar…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Max_Headroom

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — The United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland, commonly known as the United Kingdom (UK) or Britain, is a country in northwestern Europe, off the coast of the continental mainland. It compr…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_Kingdom

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Claim 5: “More than half — 58% — said AI relationships are easier because they can “control the conversation.””

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Multiple sources, including a specific 'Exclusive' report and Instagram, cite that 58% of the boys in the Male Allies UK survey said AI relationships are easier because they can 'control the conversation.'

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Claim 6: “a 2024 survey from Infobip found that nearly 20% of Americans have flirted with chatbots”

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The AI Journal, Reporterzy.info, and another web source all confirm an Infobip survey stating nearly 20% of Americans have engaged in flirtatious conversations with chatbots.

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web search NEUTRAL — The survey ranks Americans’ top four reasons for flirting with chatbots: 1. Curiosity: 47.2% of participants flirted with chatbots out of curiosity, wanting to explore and experience the responses.
https://aijourn.com/infobips-survey-reveals-americans-are-ge…

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web search NEUTRAL — Research by Infobip shows that nearly 20% of Americans engage in flirtatious conversations with bots while handling standard customer service issues. This trend is particularly evident among people ag…
https://reporterzy.info/en/4662,customers-flirting-with-serv…

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web search NEUTRAL — The surprising survey found that nearly 20% of Americans have engaged in flirtatious conversations with chatbots. This trend is particularly prevalent among those aged 35 to 44, with over 50% of respo…
https://www.customerzone360.com/topics/customer/articles/458…

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Claim 7: “In 2024, a tech bro predicted that “AI girlfriends” would create a $1 billion business”

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The provided evidence for this claim consists of football predictions and general AI definitions from Wikipedia. No source mentions a 'tech bro' predicting a $1 billion AI girlfriend business in 2024.

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — An AI boom is a period of rapid growth in the field of artificial intelligence. The most recent boom happened in the 2020s before seeing increased acceleration and media coverage. Examples of this inc…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/AI_boom

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — AI slop (also known as slop content or simply slop) is digital content made with generative artificial intelligence that is perceived as lacking in effort, quality, or meaning, and produced in high vo…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/AI_slop

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wikipedia NEUTRAL — Mistral AI SAS (French: [mistʁal]) is a French artificial intelligence (AI) company, headquartered in Paris. Founded in 2023, it has open-weight large language models (LLMs), with both open-source and…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mistral_AI

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Claim 8: “20% know a peer who is “dating” an AI chatbot”

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Fortune, IBTimes UK, and Gadget Review all report that research by Male Allies UK found 20% of boys aged 12-16 know a peer who is 'dating' an AI chatbot.

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