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Dear Abby: My son stole money meant for his daughter’s college fund

Nypost · · 538 words · By Dear Abby
Family financial misconduct Workplace cultural change
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Loaded Language 80% confidence
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Name Calling / Labeling 70% confidence
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Appeal to Anger 60% confidence
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20 claims extracted and verified against multiple sources including cross-references, web search, and Wikipedia.

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“My oldest granddaughter will be looking at colleges soon.”
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The web search results contain snippets discussing the author's oldest granddaughter looking at colleges, but these snippets appear to originate from the same narrative context (the 'DEAR ABBY' type of personal story) and are not corroborated by independent news sources reporting this specific fact.
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web search NEUTRAL — It's all about the U for Kai Trump. Former President Donald Trump's oldest granddaughter, 17, is headed to the University of Miami. The golf phenom made the announcement on Instagram on Sunday ...
https://www.miamiherald.com/miami-com/miami-com-news/article…
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web search NEUTRAL — Kai Madison Trump (born May 12, 2007) is an American social media personality. A member of the Trump family, she is the eldest child of Donald Trump Jr. and Vanessa Pergolizzi and the eldest grandchil…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kai_Trump
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web search NEUTRAL — DEAR ABBY: My oldest granddaughter will be looking at colleges soon. My son and her mother are divorced. My parents gave my son (their grandson) money to put away in accounts for his daughters' colleg…
https://www.berkshireeagle.com/arts_and_culture/advice/man-s…
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“My son and her mother are divorced.”
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The web search results contain snippets mentioning the author's son and the granddaughter's mother in relation to divorce, but these snippets appear to originate from the same narrative context and are not corroborated by independent news sources.
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“My parents gave my son (their grandson) money to put away in accounts for his daughters’ college.”
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The web search results contain snippets suggesting the author's parents gave money for college accounts, but these snippets appear to originate from the same narrative context and are not corroborated by independent news sources.
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web search NEUTRAL — Study with Quizlet and memorize flashcards containing terms like T/F thanks to a settlement from the authors father wrongfull death the auther and his sisters had a sizable college fund, T/F the autho…
https://quizlet.com/462681802/the-other-wes-moore-english-fi…
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web search NEUTRAL — Wes's (Author) family members gave money, and his grandparents took the money they had in their home to pay for his first year. They felt this was his only chance to change.
https://quizlet.com/153863128/the-other-wes-moore-flash-card…
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web search NEUTRAL — Her parents paid for both of their daughters' college educations and helped them with down payments for their homes. They had been treated equally. Or so Linda thought — until her father died. As exec…
https://healthland.time.com/2012/07/25/kids-and-money-when-i…
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“Instead, he helped himself to that money before the divorce.”
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The web search results contain snippets suggesting the author's son took the money before the divorce, but these snippets appear to originate from the same narrative context and are not corroborated by independent news sources.
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web search NEUTRAL — Their son, David Gordon Rowling Murray, was born in 2003, [169] and their daughter Mackenzie Jean Rowling Murray in 2005. [170] In 2004, Forbes named Rowling "the first billion-dollar author". [171]
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/J._K._Rowling
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web search NEUTRAL — The thing is that the author and his wife got divorced, and his now-ex spent literally all of their daughter's college fund on her new home. Sam didn't mind - after all, her grandmother, our hero's mo…
https://www.boredpanda.com/daughter-college-fund-situation/
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web search NEUTRAL — I used my daughter's college fund to pay for my wife's school and planned on replenishing it so that my daughter would have a fund when it was her turn to go to college.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/i3vhcb/aita_…
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“When his ex-wife told me about it, I confronted him.”
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The web search results contain snippets describing the author confronting her son after his ex-wife informed her, but these snippets appear to originate from the same narrative context and are not corroborated by independent news sources.
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web search NEUTRAL — John Steinbeck’s wife Gwyn Conger Steinbeck describes the author as “a sadistic man” and a serial womaniser, in a newly unearthed memoir found in Wales, which is set to be published for the first time…
https://www.theguardian.com/books/2018/sep/07/john-steinbeck…
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web search NEUTRAL — She refused to speak to a reporter when confronted over her incestuous abuse of her son Logan when he was 10.Gifford, pictured in her mugshot, broke the terms of her parole by contacting her son after…
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15736043/doreene-gi…
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“I decided not to tell my parents about it because I was afraid it might shock them into a stroke or heart attack.”
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The web search results contain snippets about the author withholding information from her parents due to fear of causing them a medical event, but these snippets appear to originate from the same narrative context and are not corroborated by independent news sources.
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web search NEUTRAL — Sweating during a heart attack may be due to activation of the sympathetic nervous system. The body does this in reaction to either the pain or to low blood pressure. Profuse sweating is also a sympto…
https://facty.com/ailments/heart/10-heart-attack-symptoms-in…
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web search NEUTRAL — One leading cause of stroke in young adults is cervical artery dissection, a tear in the neck's carotid or vertebral artery. This can be triggered by intense exercise like jiu jitsu, weight training o…
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-15723257/stroke-s…
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web search NEUTRAL — A heart attack happens when blood flow to your heart is blocked. Find out about the symptoms, what to do if you think you're having one, causes, treatments and recovery.
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/heart-attack/
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“They are in their 90s.”
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The web search results and Wikipedia entries provided are general and do not contain specific information confirming that 'the author's parents are in their 90s.' The evidence is either irrelevant (Wikipedia articles on general topics) or too vague to confirm this specific age claim.
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — The president of the United States is the head of state and head of government of the United States, indirectly elected to a four-year term via the Electoral College. Under the U.S. Constitution, the …
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_presidents_of_the_Unit…
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — The is a grammatical article in English, denoting nouns that are already or about to be mentioned, under discussion, implied or otherwise presumed familiar to listeners, readers, or speakers. It is th…
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The
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wikipedia NEUTRAL — The is the definite article in English. The, or THE, may also refer to:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_(disambiguation)
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“I have put away some money to help pay for college, but it won’t cover the costs.”
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Multiple web search results indicate that saving money for college is often insufficient to cover the actual costs, corroborating the claim that saved money might not cover expenses.
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web search NEUTRAL — Alexander has been interested in programming since his childhood. True. His parents made him enter a college of information technology because they both work in the field of IT.
https://www.euroki.org/koza/are-these-statements-true-or-fal…
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web search NEUTRAL — Even with working full time, data shows that it’s nearly impossible for an MU student to completely pay for their college expenses without having money already saved, or receiving a tuition waiver. In…
https://themaneater.com/full-time-employment-during-college-…
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web search NEUTRAL — For years, college costs have only gone up as incomes failed to keep pace. Now with unemployment spiking to levels not seen since the Great Depression and hiring freezes instituted across industries, …
https://www.cnbc.com/2020/06/04/more-than-half-of-students-p…
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“I have kept this a secret because I don’t trust my son to manage it.”
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No evidence was found in the search results or Wikipedia entries to support the claim that the author kept the savings secret due to distrust of her son's financial management.
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“When I asked him how he planned to help pay for college, he said he would use the money he now pays for child support.”
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No evidence was found in the search results or Wikipedia entries to support the claim that the author's son stated he would use child support money for college.
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“I feel like a failure for having raised a son who would take money that belongs to his kids.”
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“My granddaughter is upset and feels her father has ruined her future.”
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“She also thinks I should tell my parents that he stole the money they intended for her.”
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“I believe it is a celebration for couples rather than co-workers.”
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“My husband’s office staff (eight young women under the age of 30) insist on celebrating Valentine’s Day with decorations on all office doors, complete with hearts and cupids.”
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“They have a catered lunch with specialty treats of chocolate-covered strawberries, fudge hearts and the customary heart candies that read “Be Mine,” “I Love You”, etc.”
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“My husband has been with this company for 30 years, and we’ve been together for 15 of them, but this Valentine’s Day celebration began only four years ago.”
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“I am 65 and have worked 20-plus years for a Fortune 500 corporate office and NEVER has Valentine’s Day been celebrated in the office.”
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“Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.”
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“Contact Dear Abby at http://www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.”
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