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Boneheaded boss asks employee to ‘adjust’ dad’s funeral date and prioritize work: ‘Crazy audacity’

Nypost · · 582 words · By Asia Grace
Workplace Ethics Corporate Callousness Employee Rights
open_in_new Read the original article: https://nypost.com/2026/05/11/lifestyle/employee-blasts-boss-for-asking-to-adjus…

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7 claims extracted and verified against multiple sources including cross-references, web search, and Wikipedia.

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“This boss was dead serious when she asked an employee to “adjust” the date of his father’s funeral for the sake of the job.”
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One web search result explicitly mentions a boss asking an employee to change the date of his dad's funeral due to overlapping leave, but there are no other independent news sources provided to corroborate this as a widely reported event.
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web search NEUTRAL — A boss asked an employee to change the date of his dad’s funeral due to overlapping team leave, sparking discussion about workplace boundaries.
https://dailydot.com/boss-asks-employee-to-adjust-date-of-hi…
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web search NEUTRAL — Read these articles to spot 10 signs of a bad manager and find out what you can do about them. If you’re just an employee, read them to learn the signs your manager doesn’t like you
https://zensai.com/articles/am-i-a-bad-manager/
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web search NEUTRAL — Some managers worry that, out of sight, workers are more likely to skip productive hours and binge-watch Netflix instead. But the facts about remote work say something different: 75% of employees say …
https://www.betterup.com/blog/ask-a-manager
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““She is aware my dad died 1.5 weeks ago because I put in BEREAVEMENT leave for 2 days immediately after his death,” groaned the grieving Redditor in a viral post”
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While web results mention Reddit posts about bereavement leave and fathers' deaths, none of the provided evidence contains the specific quote or the detail about the 1.5-week timeline and the 2-day leave request.
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web search NEUTRAL — A family member recently passed, and when it happened I emailed HR and my manager and simply said that a close family member had died and asked what I needed to do for bereavement leave.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskHR/comments/12ubk6p/wa_can_manag…
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web search NEUTRAL — The worker's bereavement leave was denied by HR after corporate said a death certificate was insufficient 'proof.' In a since-deleted Reddit post, the employee explained that his father tragically ...
https://www.yourtango.com/self/workers-bereavement-leave-den…
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web search NEUTRAL — Viral 'Finish Rituals & Proceed Ahead': Manager Denies Man's Work From Home Request After Father's Demise Authored by: Poorva Karki Updated Jul 17, 2025, 18:28 IST A man's Reddit post went viral on so…
https://www.timesnownews.com/viral/toxic-manager-denies-man-…
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“The employer’s email reads, in part, “Please can you consider limiting your time off during the window of last week of June through the first week of July, to only a week and possibly take the second week off later?.””
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The provided evidence for this claim consists of dictionary definitions of 'employer' and IRS information on EINs; there is no evidence of the specific email text mentioned in the claim.
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web search NEUTRAL — EMPLOYER meaning: 1. a person or organization that employs people: 2. a person or organization that employs people…. Learn more.
https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/emplo…
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web search NEUTRAL — Apr 10, 2026 · Find out if you need an employer identification number (EIN). Get one online, free from the IRS. Don’t pay for an EIN.
https://www.irs.gov/businesses/employer-identification-numbe…
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web search NEUTRAL — The meaning of EMPLOYER is one that employs or makes use of something or somebody; especially : a person or company that provides a job paying wages or a salary to one or more people.
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/employer
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“another “key resource” on their four-person team will be out on leave, and a separate staffer away on vacation during the Reddit user’s requested time of bereavement.”
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One search result mentions a meeting with four other colleagues and a boss regarding bereavement leave, but it does not confirm the specific detail that two other 'key resources' were out on leave/vacation.
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web search NEUTRAL — The email was in the aftermath of a meeting, the Redditor said they had, in which bereavement leave dates were verbally discussed. The meeting apparently consisted of four other colleagues and the bos…
https://dailydot.com/boss-asks-employee-to-adjust-date-of-hi…
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web search NEUTRAL — Am I entitled to bereavement leave? If you’re wondering whether you get bereavement leave in California, for example, it would all depend on what your employer’s policy is; there’s no regulated Califo…
https://fairygodboss.com/career-topics/bereavement-leave-101
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web search NEUTRAL — What Bereavement Leave Means for Employees. Bereavement leave is time away from work that an employee takes after the death of a loved one. It gives space to grieve, make funeral arrangements, and sup…
https://huntr.co/blog/bereavement-leave
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“I have 2 weeks of vacation that must be used by [July 1] regardless”
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The provided evidence for this claim consists of dictionary definitions of 'employee'; there is no evidence regarding the employee's specific vacation balance or expiration date.
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web search NEUTRAL — The meaning of EMPLOYEE is one employed by another usually for wages or salary and in a position below the executive level. How to use employee in a sentence.
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/employee
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web search NEUTRAL — Definition of employee noun in Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary. Meaning, pronunciation, picture, example sentences, grammar, usage notes, synonyms and more.
https://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/us/definition/eng…
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web search NEUTRAL — EMPLOYEE meaning: 1. someone who is paid to work for someone else: 2. someone who is paid to work for someone else…. Learn more.
https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/emplo…
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“A businesswoman in the UK was recently urged to quit her gig after being denied leave to attend her uncle’s funeral.”
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The search results discuss resignation requests and general bereavement leave, but none mention a UK businesswoman being urged to quit specifically after being denied leave for an uncle's funeral.
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web search NEUTRAL — When your resignation is rejected by your manager and you are threatened #worklife #work #manager #animation #fyp Consequences of Resignation Rejection in the Workplace. Veronica faces an ultimatum fr…
https://www.tiktok.com/discover/they-denied-my-resignation-r…
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web search NEUTRAL — I was advised to resign by my manager, she said it would be better instead of getting fired! I took a week off from work due to my son’s illnesses.
https://www.unemployment-tips.com/i-was-advised-to-resign-no…
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web search NEUTRAL — Grab our Financial Advisor Resignation Letter template and leave your job with style.When I first started advising clients, one of the most challenging parts was drafting a resignation letter that bal…
https://requestletters.com/home/financial-advisor-resignatio…
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““If I give you time off I’ll have everyone coming to me with special requests,” the boss argued, adding that the bereavement request may have been approved if the loss was someone in her “immediate” family.”
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The evidence provides general information about bereavement leave policies in the UK and the definition of immediate family, but does not contain the specific quote or incident involving a manager denying leave for an uncle.
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web search NEUTRAL — In states without bereavement leave laws, a private employer can legally deny bereavement leave if they have no policy providing it. However, doing so inconsistently — or in a way that discriminates b…
https://peopleopsclub.com/blog/bereavement-leave-policy/
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web search NEUTRAL — Discover your rights to bereavement leave in the UK. Learn about legal entitlements and employer policies to navigate time off after losing a loved one.
https://ergsy.com/information/am-i-entitled-bereavement-leav…
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web search NEUTRAL — What is considered immediate family for bereavement leave?Some employers will allow you to take bereavement leave if you are grieving the loss of a close friend or extended family. Can an employer den…
https://www.memorialsofdistinction.co.uk/useful-guides/berea…
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